udah lama ya ngga nulis di blog lagi, semenjak ada twitter blog ini jadi di terlantarkan. hampir 2 tahun gue punya twitter, hampir 2 tahun juga blog ini jadi sampah.
gue mau cerita banyak hal. terlalu banyak mungkin.
pertama setelah ini gue mau cerita tentang alseace gue, ya alseace angkatan gue, ALSEACE'11. but hold on, after this one, right? mungkin di postingan berikutnya.
next, untuk yang kesekian kalinya gue putus, setelah 15 bulan pacaran akhirnya gue putus. untuk verifikasi aja, gue putus bukan karna seseorang tapi ini murni keputusan gue, jadi tolong buat ngga men-judge pihak lain yang mungkin sedikit terlibat secara tidak langsung, tapi yang jelas ini murni keputusan gue.
then, gue belum pernah cerita kan gue punya band baru? semenjak band lama gue THE DIAMOND ICE IN FLAMES broke up, gue di percaya (lagi-lagi) me-manage sebuah band, RISE ABOVE THE SKYLINE. ya itu band baru gue, kapan-kapan gue bakal posting khusus buat band gue itu. anyway, maret ini band gue bakal ngerayain 1st anniversary loh.
terus, gue makin menekuni hobi fotografi gue, lagi nabung juga buat beli beberapa lensa, sekarang sih gue masih ngambil aliran 'stage/gig photography', karna ya jujur ilmyu fotografi gue masih dangkal banget, masih cupu lah, tapi gue seneng banget kalo udah foto sebuah band, apalagi band favorite gue hehe.
langsung ke postingan berikutnya aja kali ya...
28 February, 2011
19 September, 2010
how to forget your ex?
rules #1: don't ever look at her/his tweet, facebook, and things.
rules #2: try not to meet her, especially when she/he with his/her new bf/gf.
rules #3: don't listen to "your" songs.
rules #4: don't go to "your" places.
rules #5: if you got any questions, look at rules no 1 - 4.
rules #2: try not to meet her, especially when she/he with his/her new bf/gf.
rules #3: don't listen to "your" songs.
rules #4: don't go to "your" places.
rules #5: if you got any questions, look at rules no 1 - 4.
10 hal yang disukai cowok dari cewek
1. wangi parfum, conditioner, deodorant, what else? lol.
hanya sebagian kecil cowok yang menggunakan parfum cewek, kenapa? karena mereka menginginkan untuk mengingatmu lewat bau.
2. your laugh
jangan tutup mulutmu saat cekikikan, cowok sangat suka melihat itu karena itu mengajarkan mereka bahwa kamu tahu bagaimana cara untuk bersenang-senang.
3. your flavoured lipgloss
4 dari 5 cowok mengatakan bahwa itu membuat ciuman menjadi lebih indah, selama anda tidak menggunakannya tipis-tipis. :p
4. bagaimana mereka mencintai benda-benda kecil
cowok pada umumnya memperhatikan benda-benda yang bisa membuat mereka mengingat tentang anda, gunakan beberapa kali. saat mereka menyadari suatu saat anda tidak menggunakannya berarti dia benar-benar menyukai anda.
5. saat pipi anda memerah
di situlah cowok akan berpikir, "lucu sekali dia.."
6. kemampuan anda untuk menyembunyikan sesuatu
saat seseorang cowok berbohong dalam menceritakan sesuatu yang anda sudah tahu, lebih baik diam karena pada umumnya cowok hanya menceritakan yang baik-baik. *true
7. saat anda tidak takut untuk menangis
karena cowok dengan senang hati akan meminjamkan pundaknya.
8. kecintaan anda terhadap HP (dapat membunuh anda)
cowok tidak suka saat cewek melakukan dua hal seperti telponan bersama teman gossip + IM-ing dengan cowok tersebut. boys hate that.
9. the way you dance
yeah, anda tidak perlu menjadi Pussy Cat Dolls ato apapun itu. boys just love it when you shake your booty :p
10. saat nama anda pop up di IM
boys will be so happy. menunggu disapa / menyapa duluan? you go guess. :)
hanya sebagian kecil cowok yang menggunakan parfum cewek, kenapa? karena mereka menginginkan untuk mengingatmu lewat bau.
2. your laugh
jangan tutup mulutmu saat cekikikan, cowok sangat suka melihat itu karena itu mengajarkan mereka bahwa kamu tahu bagaimana cara untuk bersenang-senang.
3. your flavoured lipgloss
4 dari 5 cowok mengatakan bahwa itu membuat ciuman menjadi lebih indah, selama anda tidak menggunakannya tipis-tipis. :p
4. bagaimana mereka mencintai benda-benda kecil
cowok pada umumnya memperhatikan benda-benda yang bisa membuat mereka mengingat tentang anda, gunakan beberapa kali. saat mereka menyadari suatu saat anda tidak menggunakannya berarti dia benar-benar menyukai anda.
5. saat pipi anda memerah
di situlah cowok akan berpikir, "lucu sekali dia.."
6. kemampuan anda untuk menyembunyikan sesuatu
saat seseorang cowok berbohong dalam menceritakan sesuatu yang anda sudah tahu, lebih baik diam karena pada umumnya cowok hanya menceritakan yang baik-baik. *true
7. saat anda tidak takut untuk menangis
karena cowok dengan senang hati akan meminjamkan pundaknya.
8. kecintaan anda terhadap HP (dapat membunuh anda)
cowok tidak suka saat cewek melakukan dua hal seperti telponan bersama teman gossip + IM-ing dengan cowok tersebut. boys hate that.
9. the way you dance
yeah, anda tidak perlu menjadi Pussy Cat Dolls ato apapun itu. boys just love it when you shake your booty :p
10. saat nama anda pop up di IM
boys will be so happy. menunggu disapa / menyapa duluan? you go guess. :)
What's the best part of breaking up?
1. started to pay attention to all the songs and you will listen to every single word in there, lyrics will have a new whole meaning.
2. the good thing about a break up? good music. people will share everything in there, write some lyrics, making songs, just to remembering him/her. they can't write for crap when they're happy, but when they're sad the words just happen.
3. things will get easier in a little bit of time. the good thing about a breakup is you will have all of this negativity about what he/she did not do in your earlier relationship.
4. you will lose your weight! hahaha. :D
5. another good thing about a breakup is that you will quickly learn who your good friends are and who your great friends are.
6. you will try get over her. don't do alcohol, drugs, and things. the more you try to forget her/him, the closer you get. she's your drugs, she's your vodka, but don't erase him/her, take it as a lesson. you will get better in the next relationship, stronger and smarter. DON'T SAY YOU CAN'T FORGET HER/HIM!
7. the good thing about breaking up with the other person, is that you can get them to go back out with you whenever you want, in your mind :)
8. you can see what didn't work and what did. then you can learn what you want in the next relationship. a bit deep and meaningful but that's what i think.
9. now you can go out with someone else, who you will most certainly like better than the girl/boy you broke up with.
10. the one good thing about breaking up is getting the chance to post it on the internet. hahaha, they're the one who can hear us right? :p
in the end,
"love is always be love, don't hate each other because of love"
2. the good thing about a break up? good music. people will share everything in there, write some lyrics, making songs, just to remembering him/her. they can't write for crap when they're happy, but when they're sad the words just happen.
3. things will get easier in a little bit of time. the good thing about a breakup is you will have all of this negativity about what he/she did not do in your earlier relationship.
4. you will lose your weight! hahaha. :D
5. another good thing about a breakup is that you will quickly learn who your good friends are and who your great friends are.
6. you will try get over her. don't do alcohol, drugs, and things. the more you try to forget her/him, the closer you get. she's your drugs, she's your vodka, but don't erase him/her, take it as a lesson. you will get better in the next relationship, stronger and smarter. DON'T SAY YOU CAN'T FORGET HER/HIM!
7. the good thing about breaking up with the other person, is that you can get them to go back out with you whenever you want, in your mind :)
8. you can see what didn't work and what did. then you can learn what you want in the next relationship. a bit deep and meaningful but that's what i think.
9. now you can go out with someone else, who you will most certainly like better than the girl/boy you broke up with.
10. the one good thing about breaking up is getting the chance to post it on the internet. hahaha, they're the one who can hear us right? :p
in the end,
"love is always be love, don't hate each other because of love"
12 September, 2010
Tujuh Hal yang Disukai Cewek Pas Pedekate
Pedekate adalah saat terberat, jack! Maklum, kita dan gebetan masih sama-sama jaim. Kalo di medan perang, ibaratnya masih saling baca peta kekuatan. Kalo salah langkah, bisa fatal akibatnya.
Buat menghadapi peperangan, jelas perlu strategi. So, kita harus cerdik melangkah. Sukur-sukur, bisa ngebaca pikiran “musuh” kita. Jadi, bisa tau strategi apa yang bisa dipake buat menaklukkannya.
Sttt...., ternyata ada lho bocoran yang bisa dipake buat ngelakuin pendekatan ke cewek. Ada tujuh langkah yang bisa menjamin proses pedekate yang kita lakuin berjalan lancar. Secara, tujuh langkah ini emang disukai sama cewek-cewek, jack! Penasaran? Sok, dikebet!
1- Selalu Pandang Matanya
Langkah ini sebenernya simpel. Tapi, susah banget dilakuin. Maklum, kita emang ada “rasa” sama cewek yang kita incer. So, pekerjaan mudah seperti ini jadi terasa amat berat. Saran Hai, santai aja! Coba anggap aja cewek itu layaknya teman biasa. Selalu pandang matanya setiap kali ngobrol. Dengan ngelakuin langkah ini, tuh cewek jadi ngerasa lebih dihargai. Selain itu, mereka juga bakal menganggap kita gentleman sejati. Yang mentalnya nggak gampang down dalam menghadapi masalah apa pun. Perlu diketahui, selain nggak berani menatap mata cewek, kadang kita melakukan banyak hal bodoh tanpa kita sadari. Dan, itu terungkap dari gestur bodi. Dengan menatap matanya, bukan nggak mungkin tuh cewek yang lantas salting. Buntutnya, dia jadi nggak merhatiin gestur bodi kita yang bodoh itu.
2- Jangan Membagi Perhatian dengan Cewek Lain
Ini superpenting! Kadang, demi terlihat baik, kita selalu berusaha untuk jadi a perfect nice guy. Mencoba menyenangkan semua orang di depan cewek yang kita taksir. Termasuk pada temen-temen ceweknya. Ternyata, langkah ini salah! Cewek paling nggak suka kalo cowok yang (katanya) naksir dia, membagi perhatian pada cewek lain. So, apa pun suasananya, selalu fokus pada sang gebetan. Jangan memberikan perhatian yang sama pada teman-temannya. Karena itu bisa jadi bumerang buat kelanjutan proses pedekate yang lagi kita jalani.
3- Bikin Dia Merasa Spesial
Cewek paling suka dipuji. Meski kadang-kadang dia tau kalo pujiannya berlebihan, tetep aja dia suka. Bahkan, kalo pujiannya berbau kebohongan sekalipun. Meskipun begitu, jangan deh bohongin gebetan. Masa belum-belum udah ngibul. Kan nggak seru, tuh! Cara lain, ya lewat perbuatan. Perlakukan dia layaknya seorang putri. Semua cewek seneng banget diperlakukan seperti ini. Dijamin, dia bakal makin seneng nempel ke kita.
4- Jangan Ragu-ragu Memuji
Penyakit cowok yang lain adalah males memuji pas lagi ngobrol berdua. Takutnya, disangka gombal. Padahal, pujian itu emang pantes dikasih ke gebetan. Kalopun udah banyak cowok yang ngasih pujian serupa, jangan malu buat ikut memuji. Kan udah dibilang kalo cowok suka dipuji. Semua compliment yang kita kasih, bakal disimpan dalam memorinya. Dan, bakal berpengaruh langsung sama proses pedekate kita.
5- Jangan Gunakan Pick Up Line Standar
Ini bisa jadi masalah! Kadang, kita suka banget ngegunain pick up line klise buat memulai obrolan. Jangan sekali-kali melakukan hal ini. Karena, cewek yang lagi kita deketin bakal ngerasa kalo kita kurang pengalaman. Cara untuk mengatasi hal ini sebenernya simpel. Coba cari pick up line sendiri. Nggak usah dahsyat banget. Yang penting keliatan tulus dan datang dari hati. Yang kayak gitu yang bikin cewek seneng, jack!
6- Pilih Tempat Dating yang Sesuai
Kalo akhirnya bisa ngajak doi jalan bareng, tolong perhatiin tempat date yang seru. Jangan sekali-kali ajak dia ke bar atau night club. Karena, di dua tempat itu kita bakal kehilangan kesempatan buat melakukan aproaching. Pilihlah tempat yang pas untuk ngelakuin pembicaraan panjang. Misalnya kafe yang cozy di pinggiran kota. Stt..., cewek ternyata juga melihat kesungguhan kita pedekate dari tempat date yang kita pilih, lho! Kalo pilihannya tepat, mereka akan makin yakin menjadikan kita sebagai soulmate-nya.
7- Tau Kapan Harus Selesai
Yang ini emang rada susah. Perlu sense tajam. Cewek itu mahluk yang moody. Perasaan mereka bisa berbalik 180 derajat dalam waktu singkat. So, kita harus pandai main tarik-ulur. Cewek akan sangat menghargai cowok yang tau kapan harus stop. Entah itu stop merayu, stop menelepon atau bahkan stop mencoba buat ngegebet. Hal satu ini emang nggak ada sekolahnya. Tapi, kalo mau memperhatikan, kita pasti tau deh waktunya. Soalnya, cewek pasti ngasih tanda, kok. Entah lewat gestur, nada suara atau bahkan tatapan matanya. So, selamat memperhatikan!
20 December, 2009
45 Things A Girl Wants But Won't Ask For
1. Touch her waist.
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.
6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.
11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more,deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can't get to her friends, it makes her feel loved.
16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she's beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.
21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she's your everything - only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her.
24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of other girls you know!
26. Don't lie to her.
27. Don't cheat on her.
28. Take her anywhere she wants.
29. Text messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you miss her.
30. Be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you.
31. Hold her close when she's cold so she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Don't ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her.
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart. Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible.
41. Call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much u love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while sitting on her.
(thanks for Syifa Chipuy)
2. Actually talk to her.
3. Share secrets with her.
4. Give her your jacket.
5. Kiss her slowly.
6. Hug her.
7. Hold her.
8. Laugh with her.
9. Invite her somewhere.
10. Hangout with her and your friends together.
11. Smile with her.
12. Take pictures with her.
13. Pull her onto your lap.
14. When she says she loves you more,deny it. Fight back.
15. When her friends say i love her more than you, deny it. Fight back and hug her tight so she can't get to her friends, it makes her feel loved.
16. Always hug her and say I love you whenever you see her.
17. Kiss her unexpectedly.
18. Hug her from behind around the waist.
19. Tell her she's beautiful.
20. Tell her the way you feel about her.
21. Open doors for her, walk her to her car- it makes her feel protected, plus it never hurts to act like a gentleman.
22. Tell her she's your everything - only if you mean it.
23. If it seems like there is something wrong, ask her- if she denies something being wrong, it means SHE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT IT- so just hug her.
24. Make her feel loved.
25. Kiss her in front of other girls you know!
26. Don't lie to her.
27. Don't cheat on her.
28. Take her anywhere she wants.
29. Text messege or call her in the morning and tell her have a good day at work {or school}, and how much you miss her.
30. Be there for her when ever she needs you, & even when she doesn't need you, just be there so she'll know that she can always count on you.
31. Hold her close when she's cold so she can hold you too.
32. When you are alone hold her close and kiss her.
33. Kiss her on the cheek (it will give her the hint that you want to kiss her).
34. While in the movies, put your arm around her and then she will automatically put her head on your shoulder, then lean in and tilt her chin up and kiss her lightly.
35. Don't ever tell her to leave even jokingly or act like you're mad. If shes upset, comfort her.
36. When people diss her, stand up for her.
37. Look deep into her eyes and tell her you love her.
38. Lay down under the stars and put her head on your chest so she can listen to the steady beat of your heart. Link your fingers together while you whisper to her as she rests her eyes and listens to you.
39. When walking next to each other grab her hand.
40. When you hug her hold her in your arms as long as possible.
41. Call or text her at night to wish her sweet dreams.
42. Comfort her when she cries and wipe away her tears.
43. Take her for long walks at night.
44. Always remind her how much you love her.
45. Sit on top of her and tell her how much u love her and then bend down to her face and kiss her while sitting on her.
(thanks for Syifa Chipuy)
miss, missing, missed?
so, i wanna tell you something about yesterday.
my band, The Diamond Ice In Flames was perform at Viky Sianipar Music Center for the first time. yeah, rame, tapi yang nonton cuma pada duduk-duduk. kalo ada yang nonton pasti aneh, TDIIF cuma berempat, just Evan, Rifki, Nico, Wira. where's jJapo? he's late, we on stage at 5 and he didn't come, he came one hour later.
after the show, i hang out with my friends, karina, edo, ari, and the others. at 8, gue cabut dari viksi, karena lagi males banget, pengen sendiri. gue ga langsung pulang, tujuannya Teras Kota.
gue beli burger di wendy's, and still doing something on my phone, yeah, bbm-an sama Nisa, she's my new one haha.
di wendys bosen, akhirnya gue ke Starbucks, beli Hot Chocolate. duduk di pojokan, tetep sendiri, and still do something with my phone, mau nelpon sebenernya, tapi ga ada pulsa.
terakhir jalan berdua cuma nonton New Moon, i really miss her, i really need the time 'just you and me'. i still on my phone, sent her IM, and told her that i really miss her. suddenly, i made a lyric for her, just for 5 minutes i did it. so here's he lyric:
'Another Night Without You'
i see the sky
the stars are so bright
it's a beautiful night
with the light at the side of this road
i sit at the corner of this coffe shop
look around and see
a sweet couple is in front of me
but i can't deal with it, envy? of course yes
just a cup of hot chocolate accompany me
where's the girl? i don't know
i reach the sky
just wanna tell you how much i miss you
i need you by myside
can we make this nite just you and me?
oh, baby i need your hug
where are you
are you miss me too?
please, save me from this nightmare with your kiss
suddenly, i miss you, Nisa Novalita Kennyatta<3
my band, The Diamond Ice In Flames was perform at Viky Sianipar Music Center for the first time. yeah, rame, tapi yang nonton cuma pada duduk-duduk. kalo ada yang nonton pasti aneh, TDIIF cuma berempat, just Evan, Rifki, Nico, Wira. where's jJapo? he's late, we on stage at 5 and he didn't come, he came one hour later.
after the show, i hang out with my friends, karina, edo, ari, and the others. at 8, gue cabut dari viksi, karena lagi males banget, pengen sendiri. gue ga langsung pulang, tujuannya Teras Kota.
gue beli burger di wendy's, and still doing something on my phone, yeah, bbm-an sama Nisa, she's my new one haha.
di wendys bosen, akhirnya gue ke Starbucks, beli Hot Chocolate. duduk di pojokan, tetep sendiri, and still do something with my phone, mau nelpon sebenernya, tapi ga ada pulsa.
terakhir jalan berdua cuma nonton New Moon, i really miss her, i really need the time 'just you and me'. i still on my phone, sent her IM, and told her that i really miss her. suddenly, i made a lyric for her, just for 5 minutes i did it. so here's he lyric:
'Another Night Without You'
i see the sky
the stars are so bright
it's a beautiful night
with the light at the side of this road
i sit at the corner of this coffe shop
look around and see
a sweet couple is in front of me
but i can't deal with it, envy? of course yes
just a cup of hot chocolate accompany me
where's the girl? i don't know
i reach the sky
just wanna tell you how much i miss you
i need you by myside
can we make this nite just you and me?
oh, baby i need your hug
where are you
are you miss me too?
please, save me from this nightmare with your kiss
suddenly, i miss you, Nisa Novalita Kennyatta<3
07 December, 2009
My Dinosaur Life
Her Words Destroyed My Planet - Motion City Soundtrack
Maybe you were right after all
Maybe I'm just bad news
I've been drowning in memories
Call it residual blues
I fell asleep watching Veronica Mars again
I still futz with that tourniquet
I tried to squeeze on your dreams
Slung it on, it's a perfect fit
What do you suppose that means
My parents keep asking
When you're planning on coming around
If we'd only stayed together
I might not have fallen apart
But the words you served destroyed my planet
I'll stall before I start
I'll stall before I start anything at all
Got a job at a Common Grounds
I finally shaved off that beard
Sold my Xbox to Jimmy down the street
Hell, I even quit smoking weed
I'm taking an online course
I'l learning to speak Japanese
If we'd only stayed together
I might not have fallen apart
But the words you served destroyed my planet
I'll stall before I start
I'll stall before I start anything at all
The things that used to mean so much to me
Have gone the way of dinosaurs
Hopes and dreams and everything
All I want for you to be is happy or something
I guess anything is better than the time you spent
Hoping I got excited
I sent you a postcard but the post office sent it back
They said the building's been torn down
I just miss what I thought we both had
If we'd only stayed together
I might not have fallen apart
But the words you served destroyed my planet
It's all my fucking fault
If we'd only stayed together
I might not have fallen apart
But the words you served destroyed my planet
I'll stall before I start
I'll stall before I start anything at all
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25 November, 2009
99 Facts about Guys!
1. Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. They prefer neat and presentable girls.
2. Guys love flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.
5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!
13. Guys cry!!!!!!!!
14. Don't provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind!" would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged "umm" or makes any excuses when you're asking him to do you a favor, he's actually saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow."
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve, girls are guys weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting.
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does!
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they've been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."
59. Guys don't really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72. Don't be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
73. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they'll realize they're wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed of you or he's criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things. Not their hair!
97. If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships
2. Guys love flirts.
3. A guy can like you for a minute, and then forget you afterwards.
4. When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.
5. "Are you doing something?" or "Have you eaten already?" are the first usual questions a guy asks on the phone just to get out from stammering.
6. Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep, they always think about the girl they truly care about.
7. When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics.
8. Guys go crazy over a girl's smile.
9. Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention.
10. Guys hate it when you talk about your ex-boyfriend.
11. When guys want to meet your parents. Let them.
12. Guys want to tell you many things but they can't. And they sure have one habit to gain courage and spirit to tell you many things and it is drinking!
13. Guys cry!!!!!!!!
14. Don't provoke the guy to heat up. Believe me. He will.
15. Guys can never dream and hope too much.
16. Guys usually try hard to get the girl who has dumped them, and this makes it harder for them to accept their defeat.
17. When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back.
18. Giving a guy a hanging message like "You know what?!..uh...never mind!" would make him jump to a conclusion that is far from what you are thinking.
19. Guys go crazy when girls touch their hands.
20. Guys are good flatterers when courting but they usually stammer when they talk to a girl they really like.
21. When a guy makes a prolonged "umm" or makes any excuses when you're asking him to do you a favor, he's actually saying that he doesn't like you and he can't lay down the card for you.
22. When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow."
23. You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly.
24. Guys hate gays!
25. Guys love their moms.
26. A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses.
27. A guy often thinks about the girl who likes him. But this doesn't mean that the guy likes her.
28. You can never understand him unless you listen to him.
29. If a guy tells you he loves you once in a lifetime. He does.
30. Beware. Guys can make gossips scatter through half of the face of the earth faster than girls can.
31. Like Eve, girls are guys weaknesses.
32. Guys are very open about themselves.
33. It's good to test a guy first before you believe him. But don't let him wait that long.
34. No guy is bad when he is courting.
35. Guys hate it when their clothes get dirty. Even a small dot.
36. Guys really admire girls that they like even if they're not that much pretty.
37. Your best friend, whom your boyfriend seeks help from about his problems with you may end up being admired by your boyfriend.
38. If a guy tells you about his problems, he just needs someone to listen to him. You don't need to give advice.
39. A usual act that proves that the guy likes you is when he teases you.
40. A guy finds ways to keep you off from linking with someone else.
41. Guys love girls with brains more than girls in miniskirts.
42. Guys try to find the stuffed toy a girl wants but would unluckily get the wrong one.
43. Guys virtually brag about anything.
44. Guys cannot keep secrets that girls tell them.
45. Guys think too much.
46. Guys' fantasies are unlimited.
47. Girls' height doesn't really matter to a guy but her weight does!
48. Guys tend to get serious with their relationship and become too possessive. So watch out girls!!
49. When a girl makes the boy suffer during courtship, it would be hard for him to let go of that girl.
50. It's not easy for a guy to let go of his girlfriend after they broke up especially when they've been together for 3 years or more.
51. You have to tell a guy what you really want before getting involved with that guy.
52. A guy has to experience rejection, because if he's too-good-never-been-busted, never been in love and hurt, he won't be matured and grow up.
53. When an unlikable circumstance comes, guys blame themselves a lot more than girls do. They could even hurt themselves physically.
54. Guys have strong passion to change but have weak will power.
55. Guys are tigers in their peer groups but become tamed pussycats with their girlfriends.
56. When a guy pretends to be calm, check if he's sweating. You'll probably see that he is nervous.
57. When a guy says he is going crazy about the girl. He really is.
58. When a guy asks you to leave him alone, he's just actually saying, "Please come and listen to me."
59. Guys don't really have final decisions.
60. When a guy loves you, bring out the best in him.
61. If a guy starts to talk seriously, listen to him.
62. If a guy has been kept shut or silent, say something.
63. Guys believe that there's no such thing as love at first sight, but court the girls anyway and then realize at the end that he is wrong.
64. Guys like femininity not feebleness.
65. Guys don't like girls who punch harder than they do.
66. A guy may instantly know if the girl likes him but can never be sure unless the girl tells him.
67. A guy would waste his time over video games and basketball, the way a girl would do over her romance novels and make-ups.
68. Guys love girls who can cook or bake.
69. Guys like girls who are like their moms. No kidding!
70. A guy has more problems than you can see with your naked eyes.
71. A guy's friend knows everything about him. Use this to your advantage.
72. Don't be a snob. Guys may easily give up on the first sign of rejection.
73. Don't be biased. Try loving a guy without prejudice and you'll be surprised.
74. Girls who bathe in their eau de perfumes do more repelling than attracting guys.
75. Guys are more talkative than girls are especially when the topic is about girls.
76. Guys don't comprehend the statement "Get lost" too well.
77. Guys really think that girls are strange and have unpredictable decisions but still love them more.
78. When a guy gives a crooked or pretentious grin at your jokes, he finds them offending and he just tried to be polite.
79. Guys don't care about how shiny their shoes are unlike girls.
80. Guys tend to generalize about girls but once they get to know them, they'll realize they're wrong.
81. Any guy can handle his problems all by his own. He's just too stubborn to deal with it.
82. Guys find it so objectionable when a girl swears.
83. Guys' weakest point is at the knee.
84. When a problem arises, a guy usually keeps himself cool but is already thinking of a way out.
85. When a guy is conscious of his looks, it shows he is not good at fixing things.
86. When a guy looks at you, either he's amazed of you or he's criticizing you.
87. When you catch him cheating on you and he asks for a second chance, give it to him. But when you catch him again and he asks for another chance, ignore him.
88. If a guy lets you go, he really loves you.
89. If you have a boyfriend, and your boy best friend always glances at you and it obviously shows that he is jealous whenever you're with your boyfriend, all I can say is your boy best friend loves you more than your boyfriend does.
90. Guys learn from experience not from the romance books that girls read and take as their basis of experience.
91. You can tell if a guy is really hurt or in pain when he cries in front of you!
92. If a guy suddenly asks you for a date, ask him first why.
93. When a guy says he can't sleep if he doesn't hear your voice even just for one night, hang up. He also tells that to another girl. He only flatters you and sometimes makes fun of you.
94. You can truly say that a guy has good intentions if you see him praying sometimes.
95. Guys seek for advice not from a guy but from a girl.
96. Girls are allowed to touch boys' things. Not their hair!
97. If a guy says you're beautiful, that guy likes you.
98. Guys hate girls who overreact.
99. Guys love you more than you love them if they are serious in your relationships
23 November, 2009
How To Ask Your Crush To Dating?
Pengen ngajak gebetan kamu untuk ngedate, tapi bingung musti ngomong apa? Eits! Kita punya contekan pick up lines anti basi, dan yang jelas, nggak norak kayak adegan sinetron.
Ngajak cewek jalan berdua, nggak segampang ngajak sohib nongkrong bareng. Soalnya di mata cewek, semua ajakan “duet” itu bisa dianggap spesial banget. Masalahnya, gimana cara ngajaknya? Apa dengan gaya yang sok asik? Tutur kata yang lembah lembut? Fuih, kalo diatur kok kayaknya malah jadi grogi campur keringet dingin ya?
Nah, ini dia beberapa tips ngajak cewek tanpa harus kehilangan muka.
Jangan mikir kalimat ajakan
Biasanya yang bikin grogi adalah kalimat ajakan yang terlampau diatur. Jangan terlalu percaya adegan di film romantis bisa terjadi juga dalam proses pedekate. Kebanyakan, pick up lines akan terdengar norak dan aneh kalo diucapkan langsung ke cewek. Hati-hati banget bro, mending nggak usah pake kalimat-kalimat “surga” itu. Ajakan macam, “Kapan-kapan kita nyobain makan di restoran itu yuk! Gue traktir deh. Gimana kalo malam minggu?” mungkin ampuh juga, daripada mikirin pick up line dari film yang udah pasti akan membuat lo tampak bodoh di depannya.
Langsung, berdua.
Ajak langsung maksudnya bukan lewat temennya, apalagi lewat SMS. Ketemu aja, dan ajak di depan mukanya dengan sungguh-sungguh. Grogi dikit nggak apa-apa, yang penting percaya diri.
Nah, biar dia tau kalo kita pengen berduaan, ajaklah pas dia lagi sendirian. Jangan pas ada temen-temennya. Dia ngerti kok.
Look and Smell Nice
Ngajak cewek itu perlu kesan pertama juga. Karena ini langkah awal menuju segalanya. Nggak lucu kan, kalo kita ditolak gara-gara muka lusuh, keringetan dan bau badan or bau mulut? Berbenahlah dikit. Ngaca dulu kalo perlu. Kalo udah sip, tancap gas!
Ganti istilahnya
Seperti yang udah ditulis di atas, cewek bakal menganggap spesial setiap ajakan jalan berdua. Akhirnya, kencan jadi seperti dibuat-buat dan akhirnya nggak seru dan nggak berkesan.
Yang perlu dirubah mungkin adalah istilahnya. Jangan nyebut istilah makan malam, apalagi nge-date. Coba ganti dengan istilah yang lebih kasual seperti hang out, jalan, atau ngopi. Santai aja bro!
Intinya, mungkin sesederhana ini: "Let's get together and do something sometime."
Ceritain urutan kegiatan
Sob, ngajak cewek jalan tuh berarti kita harus udah siap dengan kegiatannya. Jangan sampe kita clueless nggak tau mau ngapain. Nah, lo aja bingung, apalagi dia? Yang ada nanti ada dialog bikin bete macam:
Cewek: Mau kemana kita?
Cowok: terserah kamu deh.
Cewek: Aah, aku ikut kamu aja
Cowok: ya kita pergi ke tempat yang kamu mau deh:
Basi ah! Lama dan bertele-tele. Mendingan siapin dari awal. Kalian akan pergi cari baju di mal A sambil nonton di sana, pulangnya makan di restoran B. Kalo jelas kayak gini, cewek juga nyaman kok pergi sama kita.
Try double-date for a starter!
Cewek itu ada yang berani ngambil resiko jalan berduaan, ada juga yang nggak pedean. Sebelum ditolak jalan berduaan, mending tawarkan pilihan lain: Dia boleh ngajak temennya yang pacaran juga. Tapi sepasang aja, jangan kebanyakan.
Biasanya dengan double-date acara jalan bareng jadi seru. Inget, jangan keseringan juga kencan ganda gini. Kapan giliran lo berduaan?
Akhirnya, jangan kaget atau sedih kalo dia nolak. Cari waktu lain yang lebih pas. Mungkin kali ini dia sibuk, atau emang lagi nggak mood jalan. Cuma kalo dia emang nggak suka sama lo, ya jangan dipaksa juga. Cari cewek yang lain aja. Ditolak cewek pas ngajak jalan bukan kiamat!
The 7 SmallthingsThat Make Girl Melting
Nggak perlu ribet atau keluarin duit mahal buat bikin cewek meleleh dan bilang, "Awww... So sweet!"
Sebenarnya gampang kok, bikin cewek meleleh dan bikin kamu dapet nilai tambah di matanya. Baik itu cewek yang udah jadi pacar kamu, ataupun masih berstatus gebetan. Nggak perlu pake acara beliin hadiah mahal, apalagi berlian. Karena pada intinya, cewek itu cuma senang diperlakukan like a lady.
Nih, kita kasih bocoran apa aja hal-hal kecil yang bisa bikin cewek melting.
1. Peluk pinggang dari belakang.
Nggak pernah gagal bikin cewek merinding dan meleleh, karena gesture ini sangat menunjukkan afeksi alias kasih sayang. Tapi ingat, jangan dilakukan kalo baru pedekate, apalagi sama cewek yang nggak dikenal. Itu mah namanya pelecehan seksual. Hehehe..
2. Selimuti pundaknya dengan jaket kamu saat dia lagi kedinginan.
Iya sih, kedengerannya emang cheesy. But believe me it works. Soalnya kadang-kadang cewek tuh suka kedinginan tapi nggak mau ngaku karena gengsi (terutama kalo lagi pake tanktop atau baju sexy demi menarik perhatian si cowok). Langsung aja sampirkan jaket kamu ke pundaknya, tanpa harus ngomong apa-apa. Kamu kedinginan sedikit, nggak apa-apa lah ya. Namanya juga pengorbanan.
3. Payungin kepala si cewek dengan telapak tangan kamu
Abis ngedate, atau pulang sekolah, tiba-tiba turun hujan rintik-rintik. Sedangkan kamu dan si cewek perlu jalan kaki ke tempat tujuan. Ke dalam mobil, ke tempat berteduh, atau sekadar nyebrang jalan. Jangan keluarin payung. Manfaatin momen ini untuk sebuah aksi heroik yang pasti bikin cewek deg-degan nggak jelas.
Berjalanlah menembus hujan rintik-rintik, sambil memegang ubun-ubun si cewek. Ceritanya melindungi kepalanya dari hujan. Ini sebenarnya cuma tindakan basa basi, karena mana mungkin telapak tangan kamu yang lebarnya cuma segitu doang bisa melindungi si cewek dari air hujan?! Tapi sekali lagi, gentlemen, yang penting kan niatnya. It shows that you care.
4. Saat menyebrang jalan, berjalanlah di sisi "mati-duluan".
Ini sih harusnya emang udah jadi insting lelaki, tapi kalo kamu belum melakukan ini, coba deh dibiasakan dari sekarang. Kalo kamu sama si cewek mau nyebrang jalan, ambil posisi 'melindungi', yaitu di sisi mati-duluan (tepat di arah mobil melaju). Begitu pun kalo jalan di pinggir jalan, ambillah posisi di luar, yang kalo ada mobil nyerempet, kamu yang keserempet duluan.
5. Cium di ubun-ubun.
Nyetrum dong? Lah, bukan cium ubur-ubur, Mas. Tapi cium di ubun-ubun. Selama ini yang dikenal sebagai ciuman sayang biasanya adalah ciuman di jidat. Tapi sebenernya ciuman di ubun-ubun juga nggak kalah manis. Dan ciuman seperti ini adalah salah satu alasan kenapa cewek memilih cowok yang lebih tinggi dari dia.
Warning: Jangan dilakukan sama cewek cakep tak dikenal yang berdiri di depan kamu di dalam busway.
6. Pamit sama ortu si cewek sebelum mengajak dia jalan.
Kalo di Indonesia sih ini udah umum kali ya. Tapi melihat ada cowok yang memberanikan diri minta izin sama bokap si cewek yang galak dan tampangnya mirip Mas Adam-nya mbak Inul untuk bawa anak gadisnya untuk ngedate... itu adalah nilai tambah. Menunjukkan bahwa kamu punya niat baik.
7. Jadi pendengar yang baik, and remember every details.
Iyaaa kita tahu. Cewek kalo udah ngomong susah banget distop. Ngga mungkin kita bisa merhatiin, apalagi mengingat semua kata yang keluar dari mulut si cewek. Tapi setidaknya listen and pay attention! Kamu jadi bisa sedikit menyimpulkan apa yang dia suka, apa yang gak dia suka, seperti apa dia saat menghadapi masalah, dsb. Atau, ocehannya ini justru bisa jadi kuncian kamu buat melelehkan hatinya.
Contoh nih, kalo si cewek baru jalan-jalan ke mall dan cerita dengan heboh sama kamu tentang barang-barang lucu yang dia liat di sana, dengerin baik-baik. Inget-inget seperti apa benda itu, apa nama toko yang menjualnya, dan seterusnya. Lalu, beli deh barang itu sebagai surprise gift buat si cewek.
Nah, siap dong buat mempraktekkan langkah-langkah di atas? Remember, it's not what you do that matters. It's the intention
How To Be A Good Cheater?
Jadi pacar yang baik? Gampaaang... Yang susah itu jadi selingkuhan yang baik.
Hidup nggak selalu indah, saudara-saudara. Ada kalanya cewek yang kita gebet ternyata udah punya pacar. Padahal cewek itu mau sama kita. Akibatnya, kita cuma kebagian jatah sebagai HTS-an atau selingkuhan.
Gue di sini nggak menyarankan kalian untuk jadi selingkuhan lho. Lebih banyak ruginya daripada untungnya. Tapi kalo udah terlanjur, atau mungkin malah punya "cita-cita" tinggi yaitu merebut dia dari tangan pacarnya, ada baiknya kamu berusaha sekuat tenaga untuk jadi selingkuhan yang baik. Siapa tahu suatu hari nanti bisa naik kelas jadi pacar resmi. Hehehe...
1. Jangan terlalu tergantung
Terimalah bahwa kamu bukan pacarnya yang "sah". Prioritas dia adalah pacarnya, dan dia pasti udah disibukkan dengan pacarnya yang minta ini itu dan nuntut segala macem. So, janganlah kamu melakukan hal yang sama.
2. Jangan tunjukkan kalau kamu cemburu sama pacarnya
Itu resiko, bukan? Nunjukin kalo kamu jealous cuma bakalan bikin dia guiltyfeeling, dan bikin kamu capek hati. Lagipula tanpa kamu bilang pun dia tau kok bahwa kamu pasti menyimpan jealousy (meskipun cuman dikiiiiiit) sama pacarnya.
3. Jadilah pendengar yang baik
Dia mungkin butuh kamu untuk curhat masalah-masalah yang nggak bisa dia curhatin ke pacarnya. Misalnya: masalah dengan pacarnya. Hehe. Dan kamu harus ridho-ridho aja dengerinnya. Lupain dulu perasaan, dan jadilah teman buat dia.
4. Jangan pernah menuntut lebih
Adegan kayak gini sering banget kita liat di sinetron. "Mas, kapan dong kamu putusin pacar kamu?" Haduh! Jangan lah ya. Selain bakal bikin dia serba salah, belum tentu juga kan dia mau menjadikan kamu Nomor 1. Atau kalo mau minta kepastian dari dirinya (ceileeehh), pakailah bahasa yang nggak terlalu frontal. Pake kalimat, "Eh, lu belum bosen ya pacaran sama dia?" misalnya.
5. Cari tau kekurangan pacarnya
Misalnya pacarnya kurang bisa diajak bercanda, atau pacarnya nggak perhatian, atau pacarnya playboy. Nah, kamu harus jadi kebalikan dari sifat-sifat cowoknya itu. Yang nggak bisa dia dapet dari sang pacar, bisa dia dapet dari kamu kan.
6. Jangan menghubungi dia di saat kira-kira dia lagi sama sang pacar
Malem minggu adalah "jatah" dia pacaran. Tahan dulu deh keinginan untuk nelpon dia. Dia bakalan terganggu dan ribet (berusaha menyembunyikan dari pacarnya), dan bisa-bisa malah pacarnya curiga.
7. Dekati pacarnya
Keep your friends close, and your enemy closer. Hehehe... Ini berguna bagi kamu untuk mengenali kelemahan sang pacar, dan supaya kalo dia curiga pacarnya punya selingkuhan, dia nggak akan langsung mencurigai kamu
8. Jangan maksa ngajak jalan ke tempat umum
Kalo dia mau, syukur... Kalo nggak, ya udah. Kalo ketemu orang yang kenal bisa-bisa menimbulkan kecurigaan tuh. Lagian kalo jalan di tempat umum pun kalian nggak bisa deket-deketan atau pegangan tangan. Keliatan sama temennya, bisa berabe tuh. Lebih parah lagi kalo kepergok sama tim Playboy Kabel atau Termehek-mehek atau reality show yang lain. Malu banget nggak sih lo? Hehehe...
9. Jangan terlalu banyak berharap
Karena cepat atau lambat, dia pasti harus memilih. Dan ada kemungkinan besar, bukan kamu yang dipilihnya. Tapi sampai judgement day itu tiba, just do your best, and enjoy the ride. Hehehe.
10. Don't stop trying
Ingat. Dia bisa punya "pacar" dua, kenapa kamu nggak? Jangan tutup kemungkinan dan pencarian terhadap cewek-cewek lain di luar sana yang kira-kira potensial buat dijadiin pacar beneran. Anggaplah fase 'jadi selingkuhan' ini sebagai pemanasan atau latihan atau pengisi waktu sebelum kamu dapetin pacar. Masih banyak ikan di laut, bos. Siapa tahu besok ternyata kamu yang harus memberikan kabar buruk ke peselingkuh kamu sambil bilang, "Sorry ya, sekarang gue udah punya pacar."
19 September, 2009
gettin' bored
cuma mau posting lirik buat band gue!
REVENGE OF THE FALLEN
i'm bleeding
for my revenge
with blood on my left hand
another day, for another reason
today felt same as yesterday
tomorrow still on my mind
because she smiles with her fake smile
six times in a day
you drink my fucking drugs
it's sick to staring at her
because that's all makes me cry
i walk alone
going to the hell
with her fucking head in my right hand
her body lie on the her grave
she killed by my left hand
with revenge of the fallen in my fucking brain
and now she haunted my mind
A MURDER OF THUNDER IN AUTUMN
Rolling hills and claps of thunder
Moonlite skies and awesome wonder
Fill this land you made
And every breath I take
Lakes of glass, leaves are turning
Deep inside we feel a yearning
To be close to you
It's all I want to do
The winds are cold, seasons change
Moon and star rearrange
Winters coming soon
I still want to be close to you
Your voice is still in whisper tender
Revealed in creation so I remember
That you're coming soon
Still want to be close to you
Close your eyes, let me kill you
Close your eyes, you will die
Close your eyes, let me kill you
Close your eyes, you will fuckin' die
Your promises are forever
Forevermore your word will stand
Not by your eyes or your tongue
But by your every fuckin' lie!
SPAWN OF THE LIGHT
When Satan's fury burns in Hell,
And you feel the power swell,
The Darkness flows from within the lake,
All for the cause of Evil's sake.
The time of doom is close at hand,
When Darkness shall rule the land.
Through the Darkness you shall go;
Only where, He shall know.
Although the Darkness has much might,
It must conquer the piercing light!
And when that light has been snuffed out,
You shall hear His demonic shout:
"Blessed is he who has My mark,
For he shall live in the land so dark!
Death to he who is spawn of the light,
For he shall feel My furious might!
In this land so dark and cruel,
All is under Satan's rule.
And then, alas, without the light,
All must perish in eternal night
GODLESS
Blindly leading the sheep to the slaughter
Condemning sin while raping your daughter
Judgmental eyes full of fire
Preaching the word of your sacred liar.
Obey the word of the one true god
As he spews venom, disease, and discord
Bathe in the blood of innocence
The smell of flesh sodomizing the sense
God is not walking beside you
Break the chains and start new
Fuck your god I will take my own stand
I will walk the path of the left hand
The meek will cover the soil
WITH THERE DEAD
WHILE THE STRONG WILL PAINT THE SKY BLOOD RED!!!!!!!!!!
I bring you free thought
That's why the angel of light himself fought
Tonight the revolt will begin
AND CHRISTS REIGN WILL COME TO AN END!
INTOXICATING REDEMPTION OF LOVE
Monochromatic visions of Serenity,
Upon the kiss of our souls,
Utter tranquil in an eternity,
Radiance of thou beauty; illuminates the smile of this fool
Demonic whispers of Love,
For, the eerie tranquil has arose,
Mystical illusions of the passion of a white dove,
For, Satan's kiss seals this poem with a black rose,
Illusions of enthrall love,
Whispers of immortal love,
Yet,
This black rose,
Fades to midnight blue,
Tempest of retribution,
Brews,
For the vengeance,
Of this venom,
that flows through my veins,
this heartache, I suffer
Paradox of paradise,
Existence of Extinction,
Distinctions of Persistence,
Distance's fatality of reality,
Misconstrued
Monochromatic visions of Serenity,
For, the eerie tranquil has arose,
Whispers of immortal love,
For the vengeance,
of reality,
http://www.myspace.com/tdiif
REVENGE OF THE FALLEN
i'm bleeding
for my revenge
with blood on my left hand
another day, for another reason
today felt same as yesterday
tomorrow still on my mind
because she smiles with her fake smile
six times in a day
you drink my fucking drugs
it's sick to staring at her
because that's all makes me cry
i walk alone
going to the hell
with her fucking head in my right hand
her body lie on the her grave
she killed by my left hand
with revenge of the fallen in my fucking brain
and now she haunted my mind
A MURDER OF THUNDER IN AUTUMN
Rolling hills and claps of thunder
Moonlite skies and awesome wonder
Fill this land you made
And every breath I take
Lakes of glass, leaves are turning
Deep inside we feel a yearning
To be close to you
It's all I want to do
The winds are cold, seasons change
Moon and star rearrange
Winters coming soon
I still want to be close to you
Your voice is still in whisper tender
Revealed in creation so I remember
That you're coming soon
Still want to be close to you
Close your eyes, let me kill you
Close your eyes, you will die
Close your eyes, let me kill you
Close your eyes, you will fuckin' die
Your promises are forever
Forevermore your word will stand
Not by your eyes or your tongue
But by your every fuckin' lie!
SPAWN OF THE LIGHT
When Satan's fury burns in Hell,
And you feel the power swell,
The Darkness flows from within the lake,
All for the cause of Evil's sake.
The time of doom is close at hand,
When Darkness shall rule the land.
Through the Darkness you shall go;
Only where, He shall know.
Although the Darkness has much might,
It must conquer the piercing light!
And when that light has been snuffed out,
You shall hear His demonic shout:
"Blessed is he who has My mark,
For he shall live in the land so dark!
Death to he who is spawn of the light,
For he shall feel My furious might!
In this land so dark and cruel,
All is under Satan's rule.
And then, alas, without the light,
All must perish in eternal night
GODLESS
Blindly leading the sheep to the slaughter
Condemning sin while raping your daughter
Judgmental eyes full of fire
Preaching the word of your sacred liar.
Obey the word of the one true god
As he spews venom, disease, and discord
Bathe in the blood of innocence
The smell of flesh sodomizing the sense
God is not walking beside you
Break the chains and start new
Fuck your god I will take my own stand
I will walk the path of the left hand
The meek will cover the soil
WITH THERE DEAD
WHILE THE STRONG WILL PAINT THE SKY BLOOD RED!!!!!!!!!!
I bring you free thought
That's why the angel of light himself fought
Tonight the revolt will begin
AND CHRISTS REIGN WILL COME TO AN END!
INTOXICATING REDEMPTION OF LOVE
Monochromatic visions of Serenity,
Upon the kiss of our souls,
Utter tranquil in an eternity,
Radiance of thou beauty; illuminates the smile of this fool
Demonic whispers of Love,
For, the eerie tranquil has arose,
Mystical illusions of the passion of a white dove,
For, Satan's kiss seals this poem with a black rose,
Illusions of enthrall love,
Whispers of immortal love,
Yet,
This black rose,
Fades to midnight blue,
Tempest of retribution,
Brews,
For the vengeance,
Of this venom,
that flows through my veins,
this heartache, I suffer
Paradox of paradise,
Existence of Extinction,
Distinctions of Persistence,
Distance's fatality of reality,
Misconstrued
Monochromatic visions of Serenity,
For, the eerie tranquil has arose,
Whispers of immortal love,
For the vengeance,
of reality,
http://www.myspace.com/tdiif
31 August, 2009
the unlucky moment after autumn
ini tentang cewek yang yaa bisa di bilang paling bikin gue rada-rada ngga ngerti juga deh kesalahan gue tuh dimana, fiuh lebih tepatnya sih kayanya gue kurang beruntung kali ya?
okay, jadi ceritanya tuh gini nih hehe, that was in Autumn, waktu itu gue baru putus sama pacar gue yg waktu itu.
setelah sekitar 2 minggu gue putus (pas putus rasanya ga enak banget tuh, my-ex left me without a good reason gitu), salah satu sahabat gue yang berjenis kelamin wanita memperkenalkan temannya ke gue, abis kenalan itu, ternyata sahabat gue itu baru tau kalo si cewek yang dia kenalin baru punya cowok, damn!
kecewa? sedikit, gue ga nyerah haha, sayang dong barang bagus di lepas gitu aja, secara fisik ini cewek oke banget, badan bagus, putih mulus, rambut panjng , cantik, plus plus deh wkwkwk.
akhirnya gue mutusin buat tetep ngegebet itu cewek, dan akhirnya deket juga tuh dengan sangat lancar tanpa hambatan-_-, sampe-sampe kita waktu itu udah punya panggilan sayang masing-msing loh blog(sumpah jadi inget deh kangen ;p), dia jadi sering banget curhat tentang cowoknya itu hahaha, ternyata cowoknya itu tuh cuek, trus mereka sering berantem, nah gue mikir waktu itu, "ada celah nih" asik ga tuh hahaha ya akhirnya gue manfaatin momen itu, gue mencoba menghancurkan hubungan mereka (jahat abis-_-), tapi tetap dengan alibi gue tuh dukung banget hubungan mereka ngahahahaha
dan akhirnya dia bilang ke gue kalo beberapa hari setelah tahun baru, dia putus, dan gue pun niat pas waktu itu juga di dalam hati, "2 minggu lagi gue tembak deh". tapi ternyata sayup-sayup terdengar kabar kalo dia jadian sama cowok lain, seminggu sebelum gue tembak. damn!
semenjak saat itu, gue sama dia menjauh secara perlahan, sangat perlahan. ya walaupun dia sama yg baru itu ga lama, tetep aja gue jadi ngerasa gimana gitu ya haha, yaudahlah akhirnya gue dapet gebetan baru juga terus nya.
sampe sekarang hubungan gue sama itu cewek biasa aja, msn udah ga pernah nyapa, fb udah ga pernah wall, nomor dia ilang, twitter sempet sih dia nyapa tapi waktu itu udah gue reply malah ga di reply terusnya ahh fak!
okay blog, cukup sekian ceritanya, ntar ada cerita tentang cewek yang lainnya kok wehehehe
byeeeee
okay, jadi ceritanya tuh gini nih hehe, that was in Autumn, waktu itu gue baru putus sama pacar gue yg waktu itu.
setelah sekitar 2 minggu gue putus (pas putus rasanya ga enak banget tuh, my-ex left me without a good reason gitu), salah satu sahabat gue yang berjenis kelamin wanita memperkenalkan temannya ke gue, abis kenalan itu, ternyata sahabat gue itu baru tau kalo si cewek yang dia kenalin baru punya cowok, damn!
kecewa? sedikit, gue ga nyerah haha, sayang dong barang bagus di lepas gitu aja, secara fisik ini cewek oke banget, badan bagus, putih mulus, rambut panjng , cantik, plus plus deh wkwkwk.
akhirnya gue mutusin buat tetep ngegebet itu cewek, dan akhirnya deket juga tuh dengan sangat lancar tanpa hambatan-_-, sampe-sampe kita waktu itu udah punya panggilan sayang masing-msing loh blog(sumpah jadi inget deh kangen ;p), dia jadi sering banget curhat tentang cowoknya itu hahaha, ternyata cowoknya itu tuh cuek, trus mereka sering berantem, nah gue mikir waktu itu, "ada celah nih" asik ga tuh hahaha ya akhirnya gue manfaatin momen itu, gue mencoba menghancurkan hubungan mereka (jahat abis-_-), tapi tetap dengan alibi gue tuh dukung banget hubungan mereka ngahahahaha
dan akhirnya dia bilang ke gue kalo beberapa hari setelah tahun baru, dia putus, dan gue pun niat pas waktu itu juga di dalam hati, "2 minggu lagi gue tembak deh". tapi ternyata sayup-sayup terdengar kabar kalo dia jadian sama cowok lain, seminggu sebelum gue tembak. damn!
semenjak saat itu, gue sama dia menjauh secara perlahan, sangat perlahan. ya walaupun dia sama yg baru itu ga lama, tetep aja gue jadi ngerasa gimana gitu ya haha, yaudahlah akhirnya gue dapet gebetan baru juga terus nya.
sampe sekarang hubungan gue sama itu cewek biasa aja, msn udah ga pernah nyapa, fb udah ga pernah wall, nomor dia ilang, twitter sempet sih dia nyapa tapi waktu itu udah gue reply malah ga di reply terusnya ahh fak!
okay blog, cukup sekian ceritanya, ntar ada cerita tentang cewek yang lainnya kok wehehehe
byeeeee
30 August, 2009
tire tired!
okay blog, miss you dech aku wkwkwkwk
ya pokoknya gue cape secapek capeknya deh, pulang pes;lat istirahat 1 hari, terus sahur on the road bareng posi, ini juga gue males ngetik blog, huhuhu, bawaannya pengen tidur mulu deh blog, oke ya udah gue mau pergi dulu blog.
byeeeeeeee
ya pokoknya gue cape secapek capeknya deh, pulang pes;lat istirahat 1 hari, terus sahur on the road bareng posi, ini juga gue males ngetik blog, huhuhu, bawaannya pengen tidur mulu deh blog, oke ya udah gue mau pergi dulu blog.
byeeeeeeee
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